There will be a point in every person’s life where they will be rejected. This is part of the dating game and there is no way to escape it. There are a lot of pick up artist that will tell some men that if they aren’t being successful with a certain woman that they have to work harder on their game. Or they might say that they aren’t doing something right because if they did then a particular woman wouldn’t have rejected them. In some cases this might be true but in some situations you are being rejected for reasons that have nothing to do with you or your game.
Sometimes there are people who you are going to meet who just might not be that interested in you. No matter what you say or no matter how cool you might think you are there will be someone who is just not interested. Some pick up artist might say that if your game is tight that you can build the attraction with any woman no matter what. I agree that you can build attraction, but sometimes you might not be able to close the deal or get with her because the woman still might not want to get with you for reasons beyond your control.
For example, a man might be interested in a woman and for some reason she doesn’t feel any chemistry with him. Then he lays his game down and tries to create some chemistry. Let say for the sake of argument she starts to warm up to him and feel a little bit of a connection. Then all of a sudden she feels bad for flirting with him because she has a boyfriend and then rejects him. Or lets say he is flirting with another girl and even though she thinks he’s cool she still flat out rejects him. He’s sitting there wondering why and then two seconds later her girlfriend shows up and kisses her right on the lips in front of him. So in this situation even though he had his game down tight he still got rejected and wasn’t going to get with this girl anyway because she was a lesbian.
Some pick up artist will still tell you that if your game was good enough that you would have still gamed the girl with the boyfriend and got with the lesbians. Even though this isn’t impossible to do (because I have got with women with boyfriends who rejected me at first and also got with a lesbian twice believe it or not) there are still women who have boyfriends that will reject you and not give you the time of day because they are really that much in love with their boyfriends and there are lesbians that will reject you no matter how hard you try because they have zero interest in men. So to feel like every time you strike out is because of you doing something wrong is ridiculous.
A person should think and believe they can get with any person that they want but at the same time have the common sense to know that they might not get with everyone they approach. I am not trying to disrespect pick up artist in this article. I am a pick up artist my self and a dating and relationship coach but any relationship expert, guru or pick up artist telling a person every time they get rejected is because they are doing something wrong is just trying to sell you something. Maybe they are trying to sell you a book or some other products. Their merchandise can be helpful. I sell my own books but I will not sit here and lie to the public just to sell a book and say “You will never get rejected if you do this then that etc.”
Like I said there are times when you might be doing something wrong or something that you can improve on to make your game stronger, but there are going to be times that you are going to be rejected even when you and everyone else might feel like you are doing everything right. Rejection is part of the game you can’t escape it. When it happens take it in stride and move on to the next one. Believing that every single time you get rejected is a result of you doing something wrong will mess with your confidence and overall seduction game. Realizing that you can always improve your game and that rejection is part of the game will make you successful in dating.
Mr. Locario
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